A recent inquiry to Miss Manners highlighted a diner’s experience at an upscale restaurant where the portion size left them unsatisfied, prompting a visit to a fast-food chain afterward.
Disappointment Over Meal Size
The individual recounted dining at a high-end establishment, where the meal was presented with artistic flair but offered only a small amount of food. Despite the elegant presentation, the diner found the portion insufficient and subsequently purchased a cheeseburger to satisfy their hunger.
Questioning Etiquette in Fine Dining
The diner asked Miss Manners whether it is considered impolite to express disappointment about portion sizes at such restaurants or to request a larger serving. They also inquired about the appropriateness of seeking additional food elsewhere after a fine dining experience.
Miss Manners’ Response
Miss Manners responded by acknowledging that fine dining often emphasizes presentation and quality over quantity. She noted that it is not customary to request larger portions in these settings, as the meal’s size is typically intentional. Miss Manners advised that diners who anticipate needing more food might consider ordering additional courses or sides, rather than expressing dissatisfaction with the portion size.
She further explained that there is no breach of etiquette in seeking more food after leaving a restaurant, as long as it is done discreetly and without disparaging the establishment. According to Miss Manners, the important aspect is to maintain politeness and refrain from criticizing the restaurant’s choices regarding portion size.
